29 January 2010

Does Self-Improvement Work This Way?


Having been in existence for more than two decades, I have met and talked to a lot of people that possess qualities and personalities that vary greatly from one another. I have been in the company of introverts and enjoyed the minimal exchange of words, the long silence which I appreciated a lot every time I needed peace and quiet. On the other hand, extroverts have never failed to bring out the spontaneous and outgoing me. All these experiences pushed me to try to figure out how and why people embrace certain characteristics, and how their attitudes affect their outlook and position in life.

While it is true that there is not one person who has the best of everything here on earth, anybody can work and persevere on being THE somebody he or she wants to be. Whether you were a geek who always got bullied in grade school or you were the quarterback who every girl in high school wanted to be with, the person that you are going to be ten or fifteen years later does not solely depend on your social status back then.

If you feel and believe that you can offer more to the world, improving some aspects of your being to become a better person should not be so difficult for you to do. Self-improvement is not only about looking better on the outside, but also involves working on your negative qualities, twisted beliefs and crazy outlooks to make everything about you exude a positive aura.

For many people, I know that it is not quite easy to stand up after being knocked down hard by life’s predictable unpredictability. I know change can not just happen overnight. But many people all over the world have proven that if you are focused and determined to bringing out the best you in you, making IT happen is not impossible.

29 December 2009

Things That I SHOULD Accomplish in 2010

For now, these are the things that I want to do in 2010. I will just add some more as the days go by.

1. Buy myself a new digicam/dslr.

2. Learn a new language.

3. Get a professional driver's license.

4. Go on a vacation abroad.

5. Buy a new laptop/netbook.

6. Watch at least one foreign language film per week.

7. Finish all New York job tiers.


22 December 2009

Was Russell "Boston Robbed"?


I've been reading a lot of reactions about Natalie winning Survivor Samoa. Some feel that she deserved it, while some think that Russell played harder and was more deserving of the title "Sole Survivor." Even Jeff Probst was pro-Russell (check out his blog).

Anyway, here's just one of the many Survivor Samoa articles that I've come across since yesterday. This is an interview with Russell Hantz.

You said at the final tribal council your chance of winning had dropped to 55 percent. Were you still that sure you had won?

It kind of shook me up. I knew I didn’t win because I can read people that good. It’s like, you try so hard for something, and when you hear you didn’t win it, it’s rough. I thought maybe there’s a shot, but I started thinking and thinking about it when I was home, and analyzing everything that everybody said, and I was like, ‘I didn’t win.’ That’s why I already opened the website, russellgotscrewed.com. That’s why it’s so impressive to know that John did vote for me and Shambo did vote for me because you da man if you can get stabbed in the back, turn around, and give that person the vote. That takes a strong personality.

At first, you were the most hated contestant ever. By the finale, you were the Fan Favorite. Is that because people began to understand your game play?

Everything I did out there was strategic, every single move — burning the socks, pouring out the water. Best move I made was pouring out the water and burning the socks! It’s a tough thing to do because when you do it, you can’t get caught because if you get caught, you’re going home. But I went in it with very aggressive play and I think it worked for me. I made it all the way to the end and I would never change anything about the way I played the game.

Did you have a plan in mind when you started?

You don’t know how you are going to play the game until you are out there because you have to evaluate the people that are around you. So when I went out there, I’d seen that I could manipulate them, so I took control of the game the whole time, from day one. As soon as we were able to talk when we got out to the island, I said, ‘Let’s get some bamboo,’ and you see me do it four or five times. Right then, I was trying to see whom I could trust. I couldn’t trust Betsy. I couldn’t trust Marisa. I knew I could trust Ashley for a little while. I knew I could trust Natalie the whole time. The physical game is good and all, but for me, it’s a mental game and you just control people. And it’s crazy how you can control people so easily.

Were you a fan of Survivor before going on it?

I had never been a fan of the show. I just never really watched it! I put my application in, never thought they would call me up, but then I watched the last all-stars, where Parvati won, then I fell in love with it.

What was it like to watch yourself on TV with your wife and twin girls?

I stepped out of who I was to play this game. That’s the thing, you step out of character to play this silly game and when you are back home watching it, you’re not in the game no more, but it’s on the TV, and your kids are watching it. When I called Monica what I called Monica on national television, I looked at my little girls and their mouths were open because they’ve never heard me say a cuss word in their life, because that’s the kind of dad I am. They’ve never even seen me cry. And the thing is, this was a tough thing, for them to tell me I didn’t win sole survivor.

Could you even believe what you were seeing?

It was like lasers coming out of my eyes. I was crazy-focused. I was shocked. Watching it on TV, I was saying, ‘I am working them, baby!’ I couldn’t believe it. I said to my wife, ‘I am really good at that game!’ I know I was saying it on the show, but I was just being cocky. Now, watching it, it makes me see that I am really good at this game!

You held on to your third hidden immunity idol when you didn’t play it the last time you could. Where is it now?

Oh, it’s in my game room. It’s in my game room with a picture of me finding it and the rules for it and the idol just sitting there!


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